Making friends with confidence, self-motivation and communication

When are making friends with confidence, self-motivation and communication they will come to our rescue at trying times. Discreetly, every day is a new day in our life. There is much to do today. The early morning sun inspires us to start things fresh and put back, our past. Only a handful of us make use of this fresh bundle of energy. In various walks of life this affects the way we behave and our confidence level work accordingly. Undoubtedly, confidence is a key to thrive in this world. It is the only key tool to win the race in every walk of life.

Striking the right balance between confidence and caliber

Confidence in one’s own capabilities combined with sincere efforts helps one to achieve unthinkable heights. But many times we see that this basic element of confidence is missing in us. That missing element will make us underperform, much lower than our true potential. Be it in the workplace, delivering a message to your team members or addressing a gathering or in an interview or say even on the eve before your review meeting. This can be due to fear of being rejected or any other reason.

Success lies on the other side of fear

If we look into our hearts and think, we will come to know that fear inside us is going to get us nowhere. The confidence in us is going to take us places. This is because with confidence we can put our thoughts into words in a better and pleasing way. So we have to get out of that shell where we think whether people will accept us as we are. Instead of living in these unending moments of fear and thoughtless analysis, it is better if we project ourselves with the skills we have with the gloss of confidence. With confidence, we can portray the finer points of our personality in such a way that the places where we do lack are never highlighted.

Goals are near for growing confidence

Confidence should glow in us only till the point where our personality is boosted. Above this, it leads to over-confidence that is harmful. Overconfidence results in unsatisfied performance levels as the seed of ego grows into a plant into our mind. We then imagine and make big talks just to maintain our ego. So guys don’t let the seed of ego to germinate in your mind, as this seed should be used only for you to live up to your expectations.

We are what we do and repeat doing those ‘dos’

Confidence is all about being cool, calm and composed. So my dear colleagues, do you have it in you? If you think you don’t, boost up yourselves as your mind is your greatest mentor. You are your greatest helper. Hence, Sound planning and imagination coupled with determination and perseverance can turn any dream into reality. If we get habituated with confidence, then excellence will become a habit.

Come, let’s make success a habit

Ever determined to succeed in all my endeavours

– Kamal Loungani